E. A. Hanks

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E. A. Hanks
Born
Elizabeth Anne Hanks [1] [2]

(1982-05-17) May 17, 1982 (age 43) [3]
Other namesElizabeth Hanks
Alma mater Vassar College
Occupations
Father Tom Hanks
Relatives
Website eahanks.com

Elizabeth Anne Hanks (born May 17, 1982) is an American writer and journalist. She has written for publications including Vanity Fair and The Huffington Post , and in 2025 she released her memoir, The 10: A Memoir of Family and the Open Road.

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Early life

Hanks was born in Burbank to actors Tom Hanks and Susan Dillingham, who was also known by the stage name Samantha Lewes. [a] [4] [1] After the couple's separation, their two children, Elizabeth and her older brother, Colin, lived with their mother. When the divorce was finalized in 1987, Dillingham was given primary custody; she moved with the children to Sacramento, initially without their father's knowledge. [5] [6] Elizabeth spent "some weekends and most school holidays" with her father, who still lived in Los Angeles. [5] She traveled with him to the sets of several of his films, including to the set of Forrest Gump (1994), in which she had a brief non-speaking role as "School bus girl". [7] [8]

Hanks has described her childhood as being "filled with confusion, violence, deprivation, and love", [1] and has said that she experienced "a level of neglect" by her mother. [9] Dillingham struggled with substance abuse, including cocaine addiction, and undiagnosed mental health conditions that led to symptoms of paranoia and delusion. [5]

During Hanks's childhood, her father, Tom, made "an extended and ongoing effort to get custody" of her, but was unable to do so without proof of physical violence against her by Dillingham. [10] When Hanks was 14, following an incident in which Dillingham did become physically violent towards her, [2] primary custody of Hanks was transferred to her father. [11] She moved to Los Angeles to live with him, his wife Rita Wilson, and their two sons Chester and Truman. [12] [13] Hanks has commented on her close relationship with Wilson, telling People magazine that "Rita's not really a stepmother, she's my other mother"; she describes Chester and Truman as her "younger brothers" rather than "half brothers". [14]

In December 2000, [15] Dillingham was diagnosed with lung cancer and secondary bone cancer. [16] [17] She died in March 2002 [15] at the age of 49. [18] [1]

Hanks attended The Archer School for Girls, [19] graduating in 2001. [20] After studying for a year at the University of St Andrews in Scotland, [21] [22] she graduated from Vassar College in 2005, [23] [3] with a degree in English. [13]

Career

Following her college graduation, Hanks moved to New York City, where she worked as an editorial assistant and staff writer at Vanity Fair . [13] [12] [24] From 2007, Hanks was a night editor covering politics for The Huffington Post , before moving to Glamour in 2008 to cover John McCain's presidential campaign. [13] After "years of ... churning out copy", Hanks experienced burnout; [13] following an unsuccessful attempt to branch out into children's literature, [25] she moved back to Los Angeles in 2012, and took a series of jobs outside of writing. [13] She later returned to journalism, and has contributed to publications including Time , The Guardian , The Washington Post and The New York Times ; [3] [26] she also branched out into screenwriting, and had "a job writing jokes for a TV show". [5]

In 2021, Hanks's essay "Notes on Native Daughters" was one of the commentaries published alongside the screenplay for Lady Bird by Greta Gerwig, [3] as the sixth book in the A24 Films Screenplay Collection. [27]

The 10

In 2025, Hanks published her memoir, The 10: A Memoir of Family and the Open Road, which documents Hanks's 2019 solo road trip from Los Angeles to Palatka, Florida—retracing a drive she took with her mother in 1996—along Interstate 10, after which the book is named. [28] [1] The 10 combines a travelog, describing Hanks's journey through the Southern United States and considering ideas of place, with an exploration of her "tumultuous childhood" [12] and her relationship with her "emotionally volatile" [2] mother. [12] [29]

The memoir received generally positive reviews. In a review for the San Francisco Chronicle , Lily Janiak criticized the framing of the book; she described the use of the road trip as a means to explore Hanks's childhood and familial traumas as "arbitrary", and concluded that the book lacked coherence. [11] However, writing for The Washington Post , Priscilla Gilman described The 10 as being "vibrantly alive with vulnerability and courageous honesty". [12] Kirkus Reviews complimented the book's "heartfelt, yearning narrative", [30] while author Adrienne Brodeur described it as a "masterful blend of humor, heartache, and unforgettable landscapes". [31]

Personal life

Hanks lives in Los Angeles with her partner. [32] [33] In a 2025 episode of the podcast Thank You for Coming Out, Hanks described herself as bisexual. [34] During her childhood, Hanks shared her mother's "born-again Christian" [35] faith, but as an adult she has described herself as an atheist. [36]

Bibliography

Notes

  1. Sources variously refer to her using both names. This article uses her birth name, Dillingham, for consistency.

References

  1. 1 2 3 4 5 McNeil, Liz (April 3, 2025). "E.A. Hanks, Daughter of Tom Hanks, Writes About Childhood with Troubled Mom After Parents' Divorce in Exclusive Excerpt". People . People Inc. Archived from the original on July 25, 2025. Retrieved August 17, 2025.
  2. 1 2 3 Vaziri, Aidin (April 4, 2025). "Tom Hanks' daughter writes about childhood of 'violence, deprivation' in new memoir". San Francisco Chronicle . San Francisco: Hearst Communications. Archived from the original on July 23, 2025. Retrieved August 17, 2025.
  3. 1 2 3 4 Nesvig, Kara (August 4, 2025). "Who Are Tom Hanks' Kids? All About Colin, Elizabeth, Chet and Truman". People . People Inc. Archived from the original on August 16, 2025. Retrieved August 16, 2025.
  4. The 10 2025, p. 10.
  5. 1 2 3 4 Saner, Emine (May 5, 2025). "A child on thin ice: EA Hanks on life with her abusive mother – and world-famous father". The Guardian . Archived from the original on July 26, 2025. Retrieved August 17, 2025.
  6. Miller, Brittany (April 6, 2025). "Tom Hanks' daughter recalls actor having to 'track down' her and brother amid mother's mental health troubles". The Independent . New York. Archived from the original on July 24, 2025. Retrieved September 6, 2025.
  7. Tagen-Dye, Carly (April 9, 2025). "E.A. Hanks Dishes on Her Forrest Gump Cameo with Dad Tom Hanks: 'My Best Work to Date'". People . People Inc. Archived from the original on April 19, 2025. Retrieved September 6, 2025.
  8. "Forrest Gump". AFI Catalog of Feature Films . Los Angeles: American Film Institute. Archived from the original on September 6, 2025. Retrieved September 6, 2025.
  9. Hanks, E. A. (September 3, 2025). "Saving Ms Hanks: Caught between Hollywood and heartache". Outlook (radio interview). Interviewed by Fidgen, Jo. Produced by Helen Fitzhenry and June Christie. BBC World Service. From 00:12:35. Archived from the original on September 4, 2025. Retrieved September 4, 2025 via BBC Online. I think that's kind of incontrovertible, that there was a level of neglect ...
  10. Outlook 2025, 00:17:30–00:19:03: "It's natural that people go, 'Well, where was your father in all of this?' ... family law in California in the late '80s and early '90s, it was natural that mothers get custody, and the only way that you would deviate from that is if there is proof of physical violence happening ... There was an extended and ongoing effort to get custody of me ... at that point, most lawyers just said, 'Moms get custody and there's nothing you can do about it ...', so it went on for a very, very long time ... part of the reason why my dad would get so many updates from my teachers, from neighbors, from friends of the family was so that he could build that case and advocate for a custody change."
  11. 1 2 Janiak, Lily (April 15, 2025). "Tom Hanks' daughter's memoir epitomizes nepo baby behavior". San Francisco Chronicle . San Francisco: Hearst Communications. Archived from the original on July 23, 2025. Retrieved August 19, 2025.
  12. 1 2 3 4 5 Gilman, Priscilla (April 5, 2025). "Tom Hanks's daughter seeks answers about her complicated mother" . The Washington Post . Archived from the original on April 7, 2025. Retrieved August 17, 2025.
  13. 1 2 3 4 5 6 Clavarino, Elena (April 19, 2025). "E. A. Hanks" . Air Mail . Archived from the original on April 19, 2025. Retrieved August 18, 2025.
  14. McNeil, Liz; Vasquez, Ingrid (April 8, 2025). "E.A. Hanks Says She Considers Dad Tom Hanks' Wife Rita Wilson 'My Other Mother,' Not a 'Stepmother' (Exclusive)". People . People Inc. Archived from the original on June 5, 2025. Retrieved August 19, 2025.
  15. 1 2 The 10 2025, p. 259.
  16. Outlook 2025, from 00:32:23.
  17. The 10 2025, p. 13.
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  19. Hanks, E. A. (January 10, 2025). "Things we lost in the fire" . The Washington Post . Archived from the original on January 13, 2025. Retrieved September 6, 2025.
  20. Kim, Maia (April 22, 2025). "Alumna, author E.A. Hanks returns to campus, participates in Q&A". The Oracle. The Archer School for Girls. Archived from the original on September 6, 2025. Retrieved September 6, 2025.
  21. Huelsbeck, Mia (April 10, 2023). "Tom Hanks Has 4 Kids. Here's What We Know About Them". The List. Static Media. Archived from the original on February 16, 2025. Retrieved August 18, 2025.
  22. The 10 2025, pp. 98, 127.
  23. Fergusson, Frances; Hanks, Tom (May 22, 2005). Vassar College Commencement Address (video). C-SPAN . Poughkeepsie, NY . Retrieved August 18, 2025.
  24. Bujnosek, Bailey (June 12, 2025). "Who are Tom Hanks's 4 Kids? Meet Colin, Elizabeth, Chet, and Truman". InStyle . People Inc. Archived from the original on August 17, 2025. Retrieved August 17, 2025.
  25. Hanks, E. A. (May 9, 2025). "E.A. Hanks on Family Secrets and Her New Memoir The 10". To the Contrary with Bonnie Erbé (television interview). Interviewed by Erbé, Bonnie. PBS. From 00:24:42. Archived from the original on July 29, 2025. Retrieved September 6, 2025. I actually received a book deal in my early 20s ... I had no idea how to write a book ... I got everything I ever wanted with a book deal for a series of children's novels. And I choked  ... I choked hard to the point where I ... was not able to write for over 15 years.
  26. Lekic, Raquel (March 27, 2025). "Meet Tom Hanks's 4 Kids—and Find Out What It's Really Like Having 'America's Dad' as Their Father". First for Women . A360media. Archived from the original on August 17, 2025. Retrieved August 17, 2025.
  27. "Lady Bird Screenplay Book". A24 Films . Archived from the original on July 20, 2025. Retrieved September 4, 2025.
  28. Sacks, Mike (April 8, 2025). "E.A. Hanks Knew Her Memoir Would Have to Go There With Her Family". Vanity Fair . Condé Nast. Archived from the original on July 18, 2025. Retrieved August 17, 2025.
  29. To the Contrary 2025, from 00:01:34: "In [The 10], you blend your own personal history, travel writing, and real crime, as you investigate family secrets and explore your own identity, memory, and legacy."
  30. "[Review] The 10: A Memoir of Family and the Open Road". Kirkus Reviews (published January 17, 2025). February 15, 2025. Archived from the original on April 24, 2025. Retrieved August 19, 2025.
  31. "The 10 by E. A. Hanks". Simon & Schuster . Archived from the original on July 24, 2025. Retrieved August 19, 2025.
  32. Johnson, Hillary Louise (May–June 2025). "Where She Was From". Sactown Magazine . Archived from the original on July 24, 2025. Retrieved August 18, 2025.
  33. Hanks, E. A. (July 1, 2025). "EA Hanks, Thank You For Coming Out". Thank You for Coming Out (Podcast). Interviewed by Weinblatt, Dubbs. Schneps Broadcasting. From 00:39:51. Archived from the original on August 18, 2025. Retrieved August 18, 2025.
  34. Thank You For Coming Out 2025, from 00:15:00.
  35. The 10 2025, p. 127.
  36. Hanks, E. A. (September 8, 2014). "Born again, again: how YA literature affirmed my faith and the Bible killed it". The Guardian . Archived from the original on January 6, 2025. Retrieved September 7, 2025.

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