Been a Son

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"Been a Son"
Song by Nirvana
from the EP Blew and the album Incesticide
Released
  • November 1989 (1989-11) (Blew)
  • December 1992 (Incesticide)
Recorded
  • September 1989 (Blew)
  • November 1991 (Incesticide)
Studio
  • Music Source, Seattle, US (Blew)
  • Maida Vale Studio 4, London, UK (Incesticide)
Genre
Length
  • 2:22 (Blew)
  • 1:55 (Incesticide)
Label
Songwriter(s) Kurt Cobain
Producer(s)

"Been a Son" is a song by the American rock band Nirvana, written by vocalist and guitarist Kurt Cobain. It was originally released on the Blew EP in November 1989, which charted at number 15 on the UK Indie Singles chart. [3] [4]

Contents

A second studio version appears on the rarities compilation album Incesticide , released in December 1992.

History

Written in 1989, the earliest known version of "Been a Son" is a solo home demo, featuring Cobain on vocals, guitar and bass. A clip of it first appeared in the 2015 Cobain documentary, Montage of Heck , directed by Brett Morgan, and the full version was subsequently released on the film's soundtrack in November 2015.

Blew EP

"Been a Son" was first recorded in the studio in September 1989 by Steve Fisk at Music Source in Seattle, Washington. Of the five songs recorded, only two were officially released, with both "Been a Son" and "Stain" appearing on the Blew EP in December 1989. The session was Nirvana's first time recording on two inch, 24 track tape, and Fisk recalls that "when it was all over with, we played 'Been a Son' really loud on the big stupid speakers three times and stood up on the client tables in the back room and danced." [5]

Cobain would later dismiss this version of the song as "slower [and] lamer" than the version later released on Incesticide. [6] However, this is the version of the song that appeared on the band's 2002 greatest hits album, Nirvana , which marked its first release since its appearance on Blew. [7] American filmmaker, author and radio DJ Kurt St. Thomas has called it the definitive take, saying it better displayed Nirvana's signature thrashing guitar sound and because of the more prominent bass guitar solo in the mix. [8]

Post-Blew

"Been a Son" was first performed live on October 8, 1989 at the Lif Ticket Lounge in Omaha, Nebraska, the show at which Nirvana also debuted the future Nevermind song, "Breed", which was then called "Immodium".

On September 25, 1990, Cobain performed a solo acoustic version of the song on the Boy Meets Girl show, hosted by Beat Happening vocalist and guitarist Calvin Johnson, on KAOS (FM) in Olympia, Washington. This version of the song was released on the posthumous Nirvana box set, With the Lights Out , in November 2004.

In July 1992, a live version of the song, recorded at the Paramount Theatre in Seattle, Washington on October 31, 1991, was released as a b-side on the third single from Nevermind, for the song, "Lithium."

Incesticide and final performances

A second studio version of "Been a Son" was recorded for the BBC program The Evening Session at Maida Vale Studios in London, England on November 9, 1991. It was released on the rarities compilation, Incesticide, in December 1992. Produced by Miti Adhikari, the session also yielded the versions of "Polly" and "Aneurysm" that appeared on the album.

The final live performance of "Been a Son" was at the band's Bosnian Rape Victim Benefit show at the Cow Palace in Daly City, California, on April 9, 1993. The song was considered for the band's MTV Unplugged appearance in November 1993, but is not confirmed to have been rehearsed, and was not performed at the show. [9]

Lyrics and composition

Music

Reviewing Nirvana's 2002 greatest hits compilation, Will Bryant of Pitchfork wrote that the song "sounds like a test run for Nevermind, all rigid harmonies and tight, churning guitar." [10]

Lyrics

"Been a Son" represents one of Cobain's earliest commentaries on the issues of sex and gender. [11] In his 1993 biography Come As You Are: The Story of Nirvana , Michael Azerrad described "the instantly catchy" song as being about "the plight of a girl whose parents would have preferred a boy." [11] Pitchfork's Jenn Pelly described it as "a comment on how patriarchy sees women as second-class citizens, on how it dictates what it thinks women should be." [1]

Release and reception

"Been a Son" has been cited as one of the earliest examples of Nirvana's more melodic direction following the release of their 1989 debut album, Bleach . As author Chuck Crisafulli noted, Cobain suppressed his pop influences during the band's earliest years, but after the release of Bleach, he became more outspoken and confident about professing his love of John Lennon and the Beatles during interviews. [11] Fisk, who produced the first version of the song, said that the recording featured "Total Lennon harmonies, right out of Rubber Soul ". [12] Azerrad wrote that Cobain's vocals were "draped in most un-Sub Pop-like harmonies", a reference to Nirvana's then-record label, best known for their heavier grunge sound that defined most of Bleach, with the exception of "About a Girl". [12] English musician Tim Arnold described the song as part of Nirvana's post-Bleach "political thrust to the top of the charts." [13]

In his review of Incesticide for AllMusic, Stephen Thomas Erlewine cited "the terrific forgotten indie pop tune 'Been a Son'" as one of the compilation's highlights. [2]

In 2015, Rolling Stone named "Been a Son" the 23rd best Nirvana song in their "No Apologies: All 102 Nirvana Songs Ranked" list. [14] In 2019, The Guardian ranked it at number 11 on their list of "Nirvana's 20 greatest songs". [15] The A.V. Club ranked it at number 14 on their list of Nirvana's "30 greatest songs" in 2023. [16]

Certifications

RegionCertification Certified units/sales
Denmark (IFPI Danmark) [17] Platinum90,000‡

‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.

Accolades

YearPublicationCountryAccoladeRank
2019 The Guardian United KingdomNirvana's 20 greatest songs - ranked! [15] 11
2023 The A.V. Club United StatesEssential Nirvana: Their 30 greatest songs, ranked [18] 14

Other releases

Cover versions

YearArtistAlbum
2003 Manic Street Preachers Lipstick Traces (A Secret History of Manic Street Preachers) 1999 Radio session
2022 Softcult Been a Son (non-album single)

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