Family Man (Mike Oldfield song)

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"Family Man"
Family Man (Mike Oldfield).jpg
Artwork for UK, Spain, and Scandinavian vinyl singles
Single by Mike Oldfield
from the album Five Miles Out
B-side "Mount Teide"
Released28 May 1982 (1982-05-28)
Recorded1981–1982
Studio Tilehouse Studios, Denham, Buckinghamshire
Genre Progressive rock, pop rock
Length3:45
Label Virgin
Songwriter(s)
Producer(s)
  • Mike Oldfield
  • Simon Heyworth
  • Tom Newman
Mike Oldfield singles chronology
"Five Miles Out"
(1982)
"Family Man"
(1982)
"The Mike Oldfield EP"
(1982)

"Family Man" is a pop rock song written by Mike Oldfield, Tim Cross, Rick Fenn, Mike Frye, Morris Pert, and Maggie Reilly. It became a hit song in 1982 for Mike Oldfield with Maggie Reilly as the vocalist. Daryl Hall and John Oates achieved success a year later with their cover version. In 2009, Maggie Reilly recorded another version of the song for her solo studio album Looking Back Moving Forward.

Contents

Mike Oldfield version

Background

The song "Family Man" was first recorded and released as a single by musician Mike Oldfield in 1982 on Virgin Records. It was taken from his studio album Five Miles Out , with vocals performed by Maggie Reilly. [1]

In the UK the single was released as a standard black 7-inch vinyl and a 7-inch picture disc featuring a photographic portrait of Oldfield. The single cover depicts a scene where a gentleman in a black suit sitting at a bar, being approached from behind by a woman in a red outfit.

Lyrical content

According to an interview in 1998, Oldfield wrote all of the music for the chorus, and verses were written by the other writers. [2] Tim Cross has also claimed to have written the majority of the lyrics for the song, and cited Rick Fenn as the inspiration of the "family man" mentioned in the song. [3]

The song is about a man who is being solicited by a prostitute and his protestations because he is a "family man." The original version has the woman storming off after his rejection.

Track listing

  1. "Family Man" – 3:45
  2. "Mount Teide" – 4:10

Chart performance

Chart (1982)Peak
position
Canada RPM Top 50 [4] 29
UK Singles Chart 45

Hall & Oates version

"Family Man"
Family Man Hall and Oates.jpg
Picture sleeve of US 12-inch vinyl release
Single by Daryl Hall & John Oates
from the album H2O
B-side
  • "Maneater"
  • "Open All Night"
Released30 April 1983
Studio Electric Lady, New York City
Genre Synth-rock [5]
Length3:25(album version/single version)
5:44 (extended dance mix)
Label RCA Records
Songwriter(s)
  • Mike Oldfield
  • Tim Cross
  • Rick Fenn
  • Mike Frye
  • Morris Pert
  • Maggie Reilly
Producer(s)
  • Daryl Hall
  • John Oates
Daryl Hall & John Oates singles chronology
"One on One"
(1983)
"Family Man"
(1983)
"Jingle Bell Rock"
(1983)
Music video
"Family Man" on YouTube

Background

American duo Daryl Hall & John Oates covered "Family Man" for their studio album H2O , and it reached number 6 on the US Billboard Hot 100 in June 1983. Their version of the song has some altered lyrics, including a line in which the man finally gets the nerve to take up the woman's offer, but she has left, and he screams out the chorus.

Cash Box praised the vocal performance and the guitar solo. [6]

The song appears on the Flash FM radio station of the 2006 video game Grand Theft Auto: Vice City Stories .

Track listing

  1. "Family Man"
  2. "Maneater"
  3. "Open All Night"

Music video

Three versions of the music video exist. The original, which uses the standard album/single version of the song features Daryl miming the song & John playing guitar in a room full of young children who are playing rambunctiously. The guitar solo features G.E. Smith performing while a group of young girls in sleep attire surround him to watch. Throughout the video, computer-animated lipstick kisses appear on screen and at one point across Daryl's face. There is also a computer-animated male and female figure to illustrate the characters of the song making eyes at each other, as seen on the single cover.

A second version of the video was extended to match the length of the 12" extended rock mix of the song, and features a typical American family viewing the original version of the video on their television while each of their appearances slowly transform into looking like either Daryl or John.

A later version turned up in some places such as the 7 Big Ones music video compilation LaserDisc, which is the extended video re-edited to match the album version of the song. This results in some strange shots as the video begins to be seen through the television of the family in the aforementioned version, yet the family is not shown. When the 7 Big Ones video compilation was released on DVD, the full-length extended version of the video was used.

Chart performance

Chart (1983)Peak
position
Australia (Kent Music Report)49
Ireland (IRMA) [7] 15
UK Singles (OCC) [8] 15
US Billboard Hot 100 [9] 6
US Adult Contemporary ( Billboard ) [10] 36
US Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs ( Billboard ) [11] 81
Year-end chart (1983)Rank
US Top Pop Singles (Billboard) [12] 67

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