Pardon my French

This article is about the phrase. For other uses, see Pardon my French (disambiguation) and Excuse My French (disambiguation).

"Pardon my French" or "Excuse my French" is a common English language phrase for asking for excuse for one's profanity by the humorous assertion that the swear words were from the French language. It plays on the stereotype of Gallic sophistication, but can be used ironically.

Usage

At least one source ^[1] suggests that the phrase "derives from a literal usage of the exclamation. In the 19th century, when English people used French expressions in conversation they often apologized for it – presumably because many of their listeners (then as now) wouldn't be familiar with the language". The definition cites an example from The Lady's Magazine , 1830: ^[2]

Bless me, how fat you are grown! – absolutely as round as a ball: – you will soon be as embonpoint ^{[note 1] [1]} (excuse my French) as your poor dear father, the major.

"Excuse my French" appears an 1895 edition of Harper's Weekly , where an American tourist asked about the architecture of Europe says "Palaces be durned! Excuse my French." ^{[3] [4]} The phrase "pardon my French" is recorded in the 1930s and may be a result of English-speaking troops returning from the First World War. ^[4]

The phrase has been used in broadcast television and family films where less offensive words are preceded by "pardon my French" to intensify their effect without violating censorship or rating guidelines. An example is in the movie Ferris Bueller's Day Off ; Cameron Frye says, "Pardon my French, but you’re an asshole" on a phone call with Edward Rooney. ^[5]

Related expressions

Poster for the 1921 movie Pardon My French; the character on the left uses the French profanity "Diable!"

Several euphemisms exist in both English and French which ascribe culturally unacceptable or sensitive matters to another culture.

• "to take a French leave" (to depart a party or other gathering without taking polite leave of one's host) is referenced in French as filer à l'anglaise (lit. "leave English-style"). ^[6]
• "French letter" (a now somewhat archaic reference to a condom) is rendered in French as capote anglaise ("English hood" or "English cap"). ^{[7] [8]}
• During the 16th century in England, genital herpes was called the "French disease" and "French-sick" was a term for syphilis, while in France, it was called le Mal de Naples (the Napoli disease), after the syphilis outbreak in 1494/1495 while French troops were besieging Naples (History of syphilis, Syphilis).
• "French kiss" (A kiss with the tongue is referred to in French as un baiser or une pelle (a colloquialism which literally means "a shovel").

Notes

1. Embonpoint is French for "plumpness"; state of being well-nourished.

References

1. Phrases.org.uk: "Excuse my French"
2. Frances White, Why do we say "Excuse my French"? on historyanswers.co.uk, 11 March 2015
3. Harper's New Monthly Magazine. Harper & Brothers. 1895.
4. Allen, Robert (7 August 2008). Allen's Dictionary of English Phrases. Penguin Adult. ISBN   978-0-14-051511-4.
5. Melissa, How the Tradition of Saying "Pardon My French" After Saying Swear Words Started, on todayifoundout.com, October 8, 2013
6. Geraldine Jones, "Excuse my French!" and other popular European sayings, on everywordcounts.co.uk, May 14, 2016
7. Matt Soniak, Why Do We Say "Pardon My French" When We Curse?, on mentalfloss.com, October 26, 2012
8. Twelve 'French' things that aren't actually French at all, on thelocal.fr, 19 August 2016