The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm

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"The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm"
Anne Koedt - The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm.jpg
Cover of the first edition
Author Anne Koedt
LanguageEnglish
Subject Orgasm
Published1970
PublisherNew England Free Press
Publication placeUnited States
Media typePrint
Pages4
OCLC 2393445

"The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm" is a feminist essay on women's sexuality written by American radical feminist activist Anne Koedt in 1968, [1] and published in 1970. [2] It first appeared in a four-paragraph outline form in the Notes from the First Year [3] which resulted in an extended article in Notes from the Second Year [4] journals published by the New York Radical Women [5] and was partially based on findings from Masters and Johnson's 1966 work Human Sexual Response. [6] It was then distributed as a pamphlet in its full form, [7] including sections on evidence for the clitoral orgasm, female anatomy, and reasons the "myth" of vaginal orgasm is maintained. [1]

Koedt wrote this feminist response during the sexual revolution of the 1960s. The goal of this response is to address both the "myth of the vaginal orgasm", create awareness and education for women and men about female sexual pleasure, and to counter previous thought about the female orgasm. Koedt reflects in her writing, "It was Freud's feelings about women's secondary and inferior relationship to men that formed the basis for his theories on female sexuality. Once having laid down the law about the nature of our sexuality, Freud not so strangely discovered a tremendous problem of frigidity in women. His recommended cure for a woman who was frigid was psychiatric care. She was suffering from failure to mentally adjust to her 'natural' role as a woman." [1] Koedt breaks societal barriers of what is considered acceptable to discuss and her article played a vital role in the feminist sexual revolution, [8] and draws on research done by Alfred Kinsey, among others, about human sexuality to support her claims. [1]

History

It wasn't until 1998 when urologist Helen E. O'Connell, and her team dissected 10 female cadavers and found that the clitoris we see outside of the body is only the tip of the iceberg. The clitoris extends back in into the body surrounding the vaginal muscles and is a few inches in length. This then proved that there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm, and orgasms are in some shape or form, clitoral. [9]

In Media

Pornography greatly perpetuations this narrative, causing many women to question whether what they are experiencing is an orgasm or not. Porn often portrays a man's orgasm being the center for pleasure and the woman as a submissive participant helping him get there; hers is a consolation prize. The idea of women asking for what they want in order to orgasm was not the "sexy" part of porn, so when it's not included the viewers, often young people watching to learn, take away that they should not be asking for more. This inequitable representation can be directly linked to the orgasm gap and how it plays a role in sex. [10]

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