Cuddle party

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Students cuddling in 2005

A cuddle party (also called a cuddle puddle or snuggle party) is a small, structured social event intended to let people experience nonsexual group physical intimacy through cuddling, usually with clothes on and after a short explanation of consent and boundary rules. [1] [2]

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History

Cuddle parties originated in 2004 as a series of events in New York City run by relationship coaches Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski, who described it as a safer space for people who felt intimidated by massage or tantra workshops. [3] [4] [5] Cuddle parties later emerged in other cities, [6] and facilitator training was provided by the originators. [7]

Reception

News coverage typically presents cuddle parties either as a response to urban isolation and “touch deprivation”, or as a formalized/commercialized way of regulating touch between adults. [1] [8] Several reports also note that cuddle parties can be confused with professional cuddling, which is usually one-to-one and paid, and with casual “cuddle puddles” at music festivals or youth gatherings. [2]

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References

  1. 1 2 Copeland, Libby (2004-08-29). "A touchy subject". The Washington Post. Archived from the original on 2011-01-22. Retrieved 2025-10-28.
  2. 1 2 Morris, Alex (2006-01-25). "The Cuddle Puddle of Stuyvesant High School". New York . Archived from the original on 2006-02-03. Retrieved 2025-10-28.
  3. Lusher, Adam (2006-10-15). "It's a tight squeeze as British reserve meets the cuddle party". The Daily Telegraph. Retrieved 2025-10-28.
  4. "Craving Human Touch? Cuddle!". ABC News. 2006-11-30. Retrieved 2025-10-28.
  5. "Group Hugs". People. 2004-09-27. Retrieved 2025-10-28.
  6. "Group hug, anyone?". The Seattle Times. 2004-09-05. Retrieved 2025-10-28.
  7. "CP Facilitator Certification | Cuddle Party Inc" . Retrieved 2025-10-28.
  8. "Group hugs, for a fee". WHYY. 2025-03-14. Retrieved 2025-10-28.