The birds and the bees

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"The talk," also known as "The birds and the bees", is an American colloquial expression referring to a rite of passage in the lives of most children when parents explain human sexuality and sexual intercourse to them. [1]

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According to tradition, "the birds and the bees" is a metaphorical story sometimes told to children in an attempt to explain the mechanics and results of sexual intercourse through reference to easily observed natural events. For instance, bees carry and deposit pollen into flowers, a visible and easy-to-explain parallel to fertilization. Female birds laying eggs is a similarly visible and easy-to-explain parallel to ovulation.

Origin

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While the earliest documented use of the expression remains somewhat nebulous, it is generally regarded as having been coined by Samuel Taylor Coleridge. [ citation needed ] Published in 1825, his verse in “Work Without Hope”, [2] refers to birds and bees.

All Nature seems at work. Slugs leave their lair—
The bees are stirring—birds are on the wing—
And Winter, slumbering in the open air,
Wears on his smiling face a dream of Spring!

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References

  1. James, Susan (22 September 2011). "Birds and Bees: Tips for Having 'The Talk' With Kids". ABC News . Archived from the original on 13 March 2016. Retrieved 13 May 2017.
  2. Poets, Academy of American. "Work Without Hope by Samuel Taylor Coleridge - Poems | Academy of American Poets". Poets.org. Retrieved 2024-06-07.