"Love Me Not" is a song by American singer-songwriter Ravyn Lenae, released on May 3, 2024 as the lead single (alongside the song "Love Is Blind") from her second studio album Bird's Eye (2024). "Love Me Not" went viral on the video-sharing app TikTok in late 2024, after which it became her breakout and peaked at number 5 on the Billboard Hot 100. Outside of the United States, "Love Me Not" peaked within the top five of the charts in Australia, Belgium, Ireland, Israel, Latvia, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom, and the top ten of the charts in Austria, Lithuania, the Netherlands, and Switzerland.
In regard to style, "Love Me Not" has been described as R&B,[1] "soul-rock",[2]indie rock,[3][4]grungy,[5] and "retropop".[6] The song finds Ravyn Lenae considering her romantic desires[5] and whether to commit to a relationship[4] that is currently unstable.[6] She explores the duality of needing her partner and also wanting to be independent.[1][3] In the chorus, Lenae sings with dreamy vocals on top of drums, "Oh no, I don't need you, but I miss you, come here".[1]
Critical reception
Marcos Sanoja of Under the Radar gave a positive review, writing "It is a poignant exploration of love and its complexities in which Lenae dives into heartache and self-discovery, and themes such as longing and uncertainty. Sonically, it is very different from anything she has released before, but it works perfectly, delivering what might be the best R&B song of the year yet. It is fun and at the same time heartbreaking and relatable."[1]
Remix
An official remix of the song featuring British singer Rex Orange County was released on October 8, 2024.[7]
Promotion
"Love Me Not" rose in popularity on TikTok when a user released a mashup of the song and "Losing You" by Solange on October 11, 2024.[8] The song slowly gained momentum on TikTok for the rest of 2024,[8] with the increasing use of the mashup in videos,[8][9] and gained much more recognition by January 2025. The original song soundtracked over 320,000 clips on the platform by the second week of April 2025.[9]
↑ "ČNS IFPI" (in Czech). Hitparáda – Digital Top 100 Oficiální. IFPI Czech Republic. Note: Select 29. týden 2025 in the date selector. Retrieved July 21, 2025.
↑ "מדיה פורסט – המצעד הבינלאומי השבועי – Week 30 – 20/07 – 26/07/2025"[Media Forest – International Weekly Chart – Week 30 – 20/07 – 26/07/2025] (Select the year 2025 and the option "30 20-07-25 26-07-25" from the stretched lists, then click "שירים מובילים - רדיו - בינלאומי" to see the chart.) (in Hebrew). Media Forest. July 27, 2025. Retrieved July 27, 2025.
↑ "ČNS IFPI" (in Slovak). Hitparáda – Singles Digital Top 100 Oficiálna. IFPI Czech Republic. Note: Select 32. týden 2025 in the date selector. Retrieved August 11, 2025.
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