Professional submissive

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A professional submissive is a person who performs the submissive role in BDSM activities in exchange for money. Most professional submissives do not have sex with their clients. [1] [2] [3]

Professional submissives are rarer than professional dominants.

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References

  1. Wischhover, Cheryl (2015-02-04). "What It's Really Like to Be a Professional Submissive". Cosmopolitan. Retrieved 2020-07-13.
  2. Chester, Nick (16 April 2015). "I Get Bound and Whipped by Rich British Men for a Living". www.vice.com. Retrieved 2020-07-13.
  3. Parent, Stephanie (2019-10-04). "I Was A Professional Submissive In A Dungeon. Here's What It's Really Like". HuffPost. Retrieved 2020-07-13.