Erotic humiliation

Last updated October 09, 2024

Erotic humiliation or sexual humiliation is a consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal.^[1] This can be for either the person(s) being humiliated and demeaned or the person(s) humiliating, or both. It is sometimes performed before spectators, including through pornography and webcam modeling. It may be part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, or accompanied by the sexual stimulation of the genitals (or other erotic region) of one or both parties in the activity.

Humiliation is a subjective issue and is dependent on context. It does not need to be sexual in nature; as with many other sexual activities, it is the feelings that are obtained from the experience that are desired, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Usually there is a feeling of submission for the person being humiliated and dominance for the person implementing the humiliation.

Erotic humiliation can be done verbally, physically, or both, and can be either private or public. Some individuals assume an acting role and others prefer to be spoken to in a degrading way. A classic technique that can be used to put the submissive into a bottom mind space is to humiliate them while also providing them with sexual stimulation. Select individuals who desire this form of humiliation also use it to acquire emotional release. Humiliation can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual variations, it can also be easily carried out over a long distance (such as online).

While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a prevalent part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay practices, relatively little has been written on it.^[2] Humiliation play can, however, be taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the other partner, especially if it is public humiliation. Erotic humiliation can become extreme enough to be considered a form of edgeplay, which some consider may best be approached with advance negotiation and use of a safeword.

Terminology and overview

The most common name for the individual being humiliated is the bottom , and the opposite individual who humiliates the bottom is often called the top . However, these terms are standard ones that are used in general dominant/submissive roleplay and are not specific to humiliation interests.

If the top is regarded as a female, they are sometimes called the humiliatrix. Other common names include Master/Dom (male top), and Mistress/Domme (female top).
For the bottom (irrespective of gender), other common names are slave and sub/submissive.

While elements of erotic humiliation may be part of a number of domination and submission-based activities, humiliation is not the same as submission. The recipient does not necessarily seek to be ordered about. Humiliation comes into its own as a sexual force when the recipient seeks the humiliation over and above means. For example, being spanked is primarily valued because of the belittlement involved. Humiliation therefore encompasses a range of paraphilia, including foot fetish, breast fetish, shoe fetish, body worship, spanking, cum shots, peotomy, bondage, and most BDSM styles. It can be as basic as the desire to kiss and massage feet as a precursor to sex; and it can be complex, involving roleplay and public displays of subservience. It can also be for a set period of time (a "scene") or an ongoing facet of a relationship. The humiliation is not intrinsic to the act or the object. Rather, it is semiotically charged by the shared attitude of the partners engaged in the act. They invest specific acts, objects, or body parts with a humiliating aspect.^[3]

Means of humiliation

Cock and ball torture (left) and breast torture (right) showcased on nude submissives at the Folsom Street Fair, US

Many scenarios may give rise to sexual humiliation. Some scenarios may be based on verbal abuse and others on physical aspects.

Verbal humiliation

Animal play, referring to the recipient as a pet (dog, bitch, et al.); making the humiliated one eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.^[4]
Objectification, referring to the recipient as it, or as an object, a thing or a hole.
Verbal belittlement, with such words as boy, girl, missy, and pet.
Insults and verbal abuse, such as loser, fat, ugly, pig, stupid, sick, disgusting, and worthless.
Degrading names, such as slut, shit, bitch, cunt, and whore.
Disparaging or cruel references about breasts, facial appearance, genitalia (including small penis size, erection difficulties, circumcision status, or clitoris and labia size),^[5] buttocks, or about behaviors such as walking, responsiveness, and hygiene.
Requirement to ask permission for everyday activities, such as going to the toilet, spending money, and eating.
In feederism, the dominant partner may humiliate the other by pointing out their weight or calling them names like piggy or fatty. They also might make fun of the other and their self-control, or poke and grope their flesh. The feedee may be required to consume on camera food that will lead to weight gain.
Forced repetition, such as the humiliated one being obliged to repeat commands that he or she has been given and to confirm them.
Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant's physical and personality traits.
Mockery, derision, and ridicule.
Scolding of the type commonly reserved for children.^[6]

Physical humiliation

Ejaculating, spitting, squirting and urinating on the submissive's body, especially on the face (facial).^[7]^[8]
"Forced" anal penetration, with dildos, anal plugs, and similar objects.
Servitude.
"Forced" sexual degradation, including such acts as cunnilingus, analingus, and fellatio.
Detailed accountability and control (micro-management) as to time spent and activities done, including lists of jobs to do, precise directions as to how the job is to be performed, and exactly how to act and behave.
Specific rituals and affectations to be adopted. This includes displays of subservience, such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace behind the dominant, speaking only when spoken to, eye contact rules, kneeling or prostrating oneself in front of the dominant when expecting orders, eating only after others or on the floor, and low-status place to sleep.
- Body worship, including such activities as kissing or licking the dominant's feet, boots, buttocks, anus, vulva, etc. to express acknowledgment, subservience, shame, and even positive emotions (such as happiness and excitement).
Discipline (BDSM), including erotic spanking, slapping, whipping, restraint, and other BDSM activities (such as cock and ball torture and pussy torture^[9]).
Dresscode (BDSM): prescriptions and proscriptions of clothing, even in public.
- For women, a common example is being mandated to wear only bikinis or lingerie, sometimes even in public where this is permissible.
- For both women and men, forced feminizing and cross-dressing.
- For both women and men, the wearing of a chastity device.
- Both men and women may be expected to go completely naked, with decorative objects such as collars, diapers, bands, tiaras, and cuffs as the only exceptions. This may even extend to when friends, family or strangers are visiting or in some public situations.
- Expected to keep a certain hairstyle or have a shaved head.
Erotic sexual denial, including the use of a chastity device.
Wearing of external signs of "ownership", such as collars.
Public humiliation, in which the submissive's friends or family, or strangers, are aware of or even witness the treatment.
Erotic objectification, in which the submissive is used as human furniture, such as a footstool.
Embarrassment
Facesitting
Cuckolding, a mostly heterosexual fetish in which the dominant woman has sex with a man outside of the relationship, called a "bull", sometimes in the presence of the submissive man, who sometimes is allowed to masturbate while watching.^[10] If the man is not present, he might help her choose what clothes to wear when she meets the other man, or they might get together afterward so she can tell him about it, either while having sex or in addition to withholding sex. If the wife and husband are not together, the wife can call the husband by telephone, or use a video service like FaceTime, so the husband can witness what happens to his wife and how much she enjoys it. Similar fetish is cuckqueaning ^[11] (sometimes spelled cuckqueening), in which the wife must witness and sometimes assist in her husband's sexual activity with another female known as a "cuckcake".^[12] In some cases these threeways become long-term relationships.^[10] Another variant of the cuckolding fetish is that a heterosexual couple fantasizes that another man will impregnate the woman.^[13] Similarly in many cuckqueaning relationships women fantasize their partners to impregnate other women.
The submissive's having to ask permission to orgasm during sex or masturbation.
The submissive's being forced to wear a gag or restraints on the body.
Forced masturbation in a humiliating manner.^[14]
Many women want their breasts to be compared or shamed for its shape or size during BDSM.^[15]
Enemas cause feelings of humiliation which are key to many of those engaged in klismaphilia,^[16] and watching the consequent defecation can amplify that humiliation.
Candaulism.

Some sexual humiliation involves physical inflicting pain, but much of it is far more concerned with ridicule, mocking, degradation, and embarrassment.

Sexual roleplaying can involve humiliation. For example, one person might play the part of a dog because they enjoy being mock-forced into it, and the top might emphasize the lowness of the bottom's status as an animal, whereas another person might play the role of the dog without any element of humiliation, simply as an expression of an inner animal or playful spirit.

Wet and Messy play can also involve humiliation.

Psychology of humiliation

Humiliation in general stimulates the same brain regions that are associated with physical pain, the inference being that humans evolved to remember social rewards and punishments as strongly as they recall physical reward or pain in response to their environment. As with any form of pain experimentation in a sexual context, consent and (paradoxically) a high degree of awareness and communication are needed to ensure that the result is desirable, rather than abusive. For example, a submissive may enjoy being insulted in some ways but would be genuinely crushed and devastated if humiliated or insulted in other ways.

Humiliation play is also connected to sexual fetishism, in that non-sexual activities may become sexualised by association with arousal, and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being aroused by others witnessing) one's sexual degradation.

For some people, activities such as name-calling are a way of achieving ego reduction or getting over sexual inhibitions. For example, between gay people, terms usually associated with homophobia may be used, such as faggot and dyke .

As with all sexual activities, some people have sexual fantasies about humiliation, and others actually undertake it as a lifestyle or in a scene. Sexual fantasies relating to mild humiliation are common. Some humiliation roleplay (pup-play and age play in particular) is combined with loyalty and care-giving to the extent that these fetishes can be seen as exercises in trust rather than primarily a humiliation fetish. The desire to be beneath the other partner during intercourse, the idea of "getting caught" (as in having sex in the garden or woods), and simulated rape are emotional games that emphasise status, vulnerability, and control. However, for most people such ideas remain fantasies; the people would have strong reservations about the fantasies' being made public, or engaged in with a partner in real life, however erotic the idea may be. When someone reveals a fetish to a partner, this usually is a result of great trust. However, the desire to be humiliated may be a motivating cause for confession, in that the act of confessing can itself be humiliating. Many people worry about being ridiculed for their fetishes, and such ridicule from their partners could be psychologically catastrophic. Therefore, many people use online humiliation (in which the humiliator and others are involved via the Internet, using chat, e-mail, websites, etc.) as a compromise between exhibitionism and reality on the one hand, and safety and anonymity on the other.

Online humiliation

Online humiliation occurs when an individual is seen in a sexually embarrassing context on the Internet. This practice allows the submissive to seek fetish partners from across the world. As the Internet has grown and continues to grow, so does online humiliation. Anecdotal reports indicate that the proportion of men being dominated by women on the Internet, through some type of personal service provided for a fee by the woman, vastly exceeds the instances of a woman being dominated online by a man, or another woman.

Embarrassing photographic or video assignments for submissives, who must publicly post pictures or videos of their humiliation. The dominant may require public acts or exposure. Sometimes humiliating words are written on the submissive's body before photographing.
Requiring the submissive to post publicly their name, address, phone number, employer, or other personal information.
The requirement for submissives to keep online journals detailing personal information, such as masturbation frequency, thoughts or fantasies, technique or aid(s) used, and disposal of semen (if the submissive is allowed to masturbate).
The requirement for the submissive to place themselves in chastity, and to publicly post a picture showing their status.
Verbal abuse.
Publicly bidding for items that reveal their fetishes.
Money slavery, in which the submissive must buy the dominant gifts and pay the dominant's bills and taxes, or give the dominant direct access to their bank accounts and credit cards.
Homework slavery, in which the submissive must do the dominant's homework or occupational work.
Repetitive assignments, such as copying the phone book.
Humiliating the submissive by changing information on social sites.
Controlling the submissive's computer remotely, through remote desktop software the submissive is required to install.

These practices can be conducted through chat, webcam, e-mail, BDSM contact websites, and proprietary virtual spaces such as Second Life or FetLife.

Related Research Articles

BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves to be practising BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture often is said to depend on self-identification and shared experience.

A dominatrix, or domme, is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. A dominatrix can be of any sexual orientation, but this does not necessarily limit the genders of her submissive partners. Dominatrices are popularly known for inflicting physical pain on their submissive subjects, but this is not done in every case. In some instances erotic humiliation is used, such as verbal humiliation or the assignment of humiliating tasks. Dominatrices also make use of other forms of servitude. Practices of domination common to many BDSM and other various sexual relationships are also prevalent. A dominatrix is typically a paid professional (pro-domme) as the term dominatrix is little-used within the non-professional BDSM scene.

Klismaphilia, from the Greek words κλύσμα and φιλία ("love"), is a paraphilia involving enjoyment of, and sexual arousal from, enemas.

Bondage, in the BDSM subculture, is the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. A partner may be physically restrained in a variety of ways, including the use of rope, cuffs, bondage tape, or self-adhering bandage.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Sexual roleplay</span> Sexual and other interactions of people playing type roles

Sexual roleplay is roleplay that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in order to bring to life a sexual fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual roleplay as a means of overcoming sexual inhibitions. It may take place in the real world, or via an internet forum, chat-room, video-game, or email—allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interests to be enacted.

In BDSM, service-oriented submission is the performance of personal tasks for a dominant partner, as part of a submissive role in a BDSM relationship. The submissive is sometimes said to be in service to the dominant. Service-oriented submission is part of a spectrum of submissive behaviors, and not all submissives are service-oriented.

Medical fetishism refers to several sexual fetishes in which participants derive sexual pleasure from medical scenarios including objects, practices, environments, and situations of a medical or clinical nature. In sexual roleplay, a hospital or medical scene involves the sex partners assuming the roles of doctors, nurses, surgeons and patients to act out specific or general medical fetishes. Medical fantasy is a genre in pornography, though the fantasy may not necessarily involve pornography or sexual activity.

Female submission or femsub is an activity or relationship in which a woman submits to the direction of a sexual partner or has her body used sexually by or for the sexual pleasure of her partner. The expression is often associated with BDSM, where submission to such activity is usually voluntarily and consensual. Submission usually involves a degree of trust by the woman in her partner. The dominant partner is usually a man, but can also be another woman, or there can be multiple dominant partners simultaneously. The submissive woman may derive sexual pleasure or emotional gratification from relinquishing control to a trusted dominant partner.

BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, roleplaying, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience. Interest in BDSM can range from one-time experimentation to a lifestyle.

Erotic sexual denial is a popular form of sexual activity whereby sexual gratification for one or both partners is delayed or "denied" sexual experiences in order to increase erotic arousal and/or tension. It is commonly used as sex play within the context of a mild dominance and submission relationship, though it can also be a solo practice. When used in the context of dominance and submission, the dominant partner is often encouraged to prioritize their own sexual pleasure over that of their submissive partner. The submissive partner receives gratification from providing sexual pleasure to their partner and from the feelings of vulnerability and tension that come from having their own sexual pleasure controlled by another. The prohibited sexual experience can be narrowly or broadly defined for a specific or indeterminate length of time, depending on the practitioner. The experience withheld can be any favored or desired sexual activities, such as specific acts or positions, provided it is something the practitioner wants.

This glossary of BDSM terms defines terms commonly used in the BDSM community.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Dominance and submission</span> Erotic roleplay involving the submission of one person to another

Dominance and submission (D/s) is a set of behaviors, customs, and rituals involving the submission of one person to another in an erotic episode or lifestyle. It is a subset of BDSM. This form of sexual contact and pleasure has been shown to please a minority of people.

Animal roleplay is a form of roleplay where at least one participant plays the part of a non-human animal. As with most forms of roleplay, its uses include play and psychodrama.

Petticoating or pinaforing is a type of forced feminization that involves dressing a man or boy in girls' clothing as a form of humiliation or punishment, or as a fetish. While the practice has come to be a rare, socially unacceptable form of humiliating punishment, it has risen up as both a subgenre of erotic literature or other expression of sexual fantasy.

Male submission or malesub is a situation in BDSM and other sexual activities in which the submissive partner is male. A 2015 study indicates that 46.6% of men who are active in BDSM expressed a preference for a submissive role, 24% consider themselves to be switches and 29.5% prefer the dominant role.

Uniform fetishism is a particular type of clothing fetishism in which an individual is sexually aroused by uniforms. It is a form of sexual fetishism. Uniform fetishism has been associated with a variety of different uniforms, including schoolgirl and cheerleader uniforms, French maid uniforms, and uniforms associated with police or military organisations.

In BDSM, Master/slave, M/s or sexual slavery is a relationship in which one individual serves another in a consensual authority-exchange structured relationship. Unlike Dominant/submissive structures found in BDSM in which love is often the core value, service and obedience are often the core values in Master/slave structures. The participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The relationship uses the term "slave" because of the association of the term with ownership rights of a master to their slave's body, as property or chattel. While male "masters" will usually be referred to as "Master", whether or not female Masters are referred to as "Master" or "Mistress" may depend upon whether they identify as following the leather subculture or BDSM path, or simply preference.

Feminization or feminisation, sometimes forced feminization, and also known as sissification, is a practice in dominance and submission or kink subcultures, involving reversal of gender roles and making a submissive male take on a feminine role, which includes cross-dressing. Subsets of the practice include "sissy training" and variations thereof, where the submissive male is "trained" to become feminine.

A cuckquean is the wife of an adulterous husband, and the gender-opposite of a cuckold. In evolutionary biology, the term is also applied to females who are investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own. Similar prying within a family is called wittoldry. The term is derived from Early Modern English dating back to AD 1562 and is composed of the terms cuck "someone whose partner is unfaithful" and quean "disreputable woman".

Small penis humiliation (SPH) is a form of verbal erotic humiliation involving the penis where a dominant person usually consensually degrades a submissive's penis. The practice may involve sexual acts or just the verbal humiliation itself; it may take place in public or in private.

References

↑ Master Marc (22 April 2015). "Erotic Humiliation and Degradation". Deviance and Desire. Archived from the original on 7 October 2022. Retrieved 2 November 2022.
↑ Midori (美登里) (2005). Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink. Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays. Daedalus Publishing. p. 48. ISBN 978-1-881943-22-8.
↑ Giannini, AJ; Colapietro, G; Slaby, AE; Melemis, SM; Bowman, RK (1998). "Sexualization of the female foot as a response to sexually transmitted epidemics: a preliminary study". Psychological Reports. 83 (2): 491–8. doi:10.2466/pr0.1998.83.2.491. PMID 9819924.
↑ Gloria G. Brame; William D. Brame; Jon Jacobs (1993). Different Loving.
↑ Adriana (2022-04-18). "128 BDSM Humiliation & Degradation Kink Ideas". Bad Girls Bible. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.
↑ Different loving, p. 102.
↑ "Facial". Cosmopolitan. 2016-11-17. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.
↑ Schwyzer, Hugo (2012-01-11). "He Wants to Jizz on Your Face, but Not Why You Think". Jezebel. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.
↑ Jamie (2022-08-15). "Pussy Torture: 14 BDSM Pussy Play Ideas - Kink Lovers". kinklovers.com. Archived from the original on 2023-06-09. Retrieved 2023-06-04.
1 2 David J. Ley (2012). Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. Rowman & Littlefield Publishers. pp. 173, 222. ISBN 9781442200319.
↑ A Dictionary of Sexual Language and Imagery in Shakespearean and Stuart Literature. Bloomsbury Academic. 1994. p. 339. ISBN 978-0485113938.
↑ LovePanky, Team (2021-05-04). "Cuckquean Guide: Do You Like Watching Your Man with Someone Else?". LovePanky – Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships. Archived from the original on 2023-05-28. Retrieved 2023-06-04.
↑ St. James, Sindy (2008). How To Get Her To Watch Porn. SecretLifePublishing. pp. 108–110. ISBN 978-0-9818039-5-1. there is an entire fetish surrounding this act, mostly connected with female-dominated relationships. ... The man can or cannot be present while the woman is having sex with another man (it's overwhelmingly heterosexual cuckolding with this fetish). If the man is not present, he might help her choose clothes for her "date," or they might get together afterward so that she can tell him all about it in detail, either while having sex or in addition to withholding sex as part of the female domination aspect of their relationship. If the man is present during the cuckolding, he may or may not be allowed to pleasure himself while watching his partner have sex with another man. Also, the cuckolding may or may not immediately be followed by sex between the couple. Impregnation and Pregnancy Fetish ... you and your partner fantasizing during sex ... that you both just found out she is pregnant... it can involve cuckolding ... When it is a part of the cuckolding fetish, the fantasy involves the "other man" having impregnated her, and his sperm being stronger than yours, and several other kinds of (agreed-to) humiliation.
↑ Wild Side Sex, p. 47.
↑ "[FF] Me and a friend compare boob sizes to see who's is better — NSFW story". 2021-02-15. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.
↑ Different loving, p. 517.
↑ "8 Best Sex Positions For Domination, Because With Great Submission Comes Great Responsibility". Archived from the original on 2019-06-08. Retrieved 2019-06-08.

Notes

Brame, Gloria; Brame, William D.; Jacobs, Jon (1993). Different loving – The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission. Villard Books. ISBN 978-0-6797-6956-9.

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[1] Master Marc (22 April 2015). "Erotic Humiliation and Degradation". Deviance and Desire. Archived from the original on 7 October 2022. Retrieved 2 November 2022.

[Wild_Side_Sex-2] Midori (美登里) (2005). Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink. Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays. Daedalus Publishing. p. 48. ISBN 978-1-881943-22-8.

[3] Giannini, AJ; Colapietro, G; Slaby, AE; Melemis, SM; Bowman, RK (1998). "Sexualization of the female foot as a response to sexually transmitted epidemics: a preliminary study". Psychological Reports. 83 (2): 491–8. doi:10.2466/pr0.1998.83.2.491. PMID 9819924.

[Different_loving1-4] Gloria G. Brame; William D. Brame; Jon Jacobs (1993). Different Loving.

[5] Adriana (2022-04-18). "128 BDSM Humiliation & Degradation Kink Ideas". Bad Girls Bible. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.

[Different_loving2-6] Different loving, p. 102.

[7] "Facial". Cosmopolitan. 2016-11-17. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.

[8] Schwyzer, Hugo (2012-01-11). "He Wants to Jizz on Your Face, but Not Why You Think". Jezebel. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.

[9] Jamie (2022-08-15). "Pussy Torture: 14 BDSM Pussy Play Ideas - Kink Lovers". kinklovers.com. Archived from the original on 2023-06-09. Retrieved 2023-06-04.

[Ley-10] 1 2 David J. Ley (2012). Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. Rowman & Littlefield Publishers. pp. 173, 222. ISBN 9781442200319.

[11] A Dictionary of Sexual Language and Imagery in Shakespearean and Stuart Literature. Bloomsbury Academic. 1994. p. 339. ISBN 978-0485113938.

[12] LovePanky, Team (2021-05-04). "Cuckquean Guide: Do You Like Watching Your Man with Someone Else?". LovePanky – Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships. Archived from the original on 2023-05-28. Retrieved 2023-06-04.

[Cuckolding-13] St. James, Sindy (2008). How To Get Her To Watch Porn. SecretLifePublishing. pp. 108–110. ISBN 978-0-9818039-5-1. there is an entire fetish surrounding this act, mostly connected with female-dominated relationships. ... The man can or cannot be present while the woman is having sex with another man (it's overwhelmingly heterosexual cuckolding with this fetish). If the man is not present, he might help her choose clothes for her "date," or they might get together afterward so that she can tell him all about it in detail, either while having sex or in addition to withholding sex as part of the female domination aspect of their relationship. If the man is present during the cuckolding, he may or may not be allowed to pleasure himself while watching his partner have sex with another man. Also, the cuckolding may or may not immediately be followed by sex between the couple. Impregnation and Pregnancy Fetish ... you and your partner fantasizing during sex ... that you both just found out she is pregnant... it can involve cuckolding ... When it is a part of the cuckolding fetish, the fantasy involves the "other man" having impregnated her, and his sperm being stronger than yours, and several other kinds of (agreed-to) humiliation.

[Wild_Side_Sex2-14] Wild Side Sex, p. 47.

[15] "[FF] Me and a friend compare boob sizes to see who's is better — NSFW story". 2021-02-15. Archived from the original on 2023-06-04. Retrieved 2023-06-04.

[Different_loving3-16] Different loving, p. 517.

[17] "8 Best Sex Positions For Domination, Because With Great Submission Comes Great Responsibility". Archived from the original on 2019-06-08. Retrieved 2019-06-08.

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