I Barely Know Her

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I Barely Know Her
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Studio album by
ReleasedAugust 22, 2025
Studio Sound City Studios [1]
Genre
Length37:47
Label
Producer
Sombr chronology
In Another Life
(2023)
I Barely Know Her
(2025)
Singles from I Barely Know Her
  1. "Back to Friends"
    Released: December 27, 2024
  2. "Undressed"
    Released: March 21, 2025
  3. "We Never Dated"
    Released: June 20, 2025
  4. "12 to 12"
    Released: July 24, 2025

I Barely Know Her is the debut studio album by American singer-songwriter Sombr, released on August 22, 2025, through Warner Records and Sombr's own imprint SMB. Musically, it blends pop and indie rock with lyrics exploring heartbreak, longing, self-reflection, and references to New York City. Written entirely by Sombr himself, the album was preceded by four singles: "Back to Friends", "Undressed", "We Never Dated", and "12 to 12".

Contents

Commercially, I Barely Know Her peaked within the top five in the Czech Republic, Finland, Lithuania, New Zealand, and Norway, and reached the top ten in five other countries. The album received generally positive reviews from music critics, with praise for its production and Sombr's songwriting, though it was criticized for a lack of variety and reliance on familiar formulas.

Background and composition

Sombr announced his debut studio album, I Barely Know Her, on August 11, 2025, accompanied by the release of its full track listing. Written entirely by Sombr, the album included four of his recent singles: "Back to Friends" and "Undressed", which gained widespread attention after going viral on social media, as well as "We Never Dated" and "12 to 12". [2] [3]

The album incorporates elements of pop and indie rock, characterized by layered vocal harmonies and expanded instrumentation. Sombr co-produced the album with Tony Berg, performing guitar, keyboards, bass, and drums on most tracks. Lyrically, the album is structured as a breakup record, exploring themes of heartbreak, longing, and emotional self-reflection. [4] Several songs reference New York City, contrasting romanticized imagery with depictions of everyday reality. [5] Tracks such as "Undressed" and "Canal Street" address personal loss and nostalgia, [4] while "12 to 12" and "Under the Mat" pair more upbeat arrangements with lyrics centered on emotional turmoil. [5]

Release and promotion

Singles

I Barely Know Her was preceded by four singles: "Back to Friends", "Undressed", "We Never Dated", and "12 to 12". [2] [3]

"Back to Friends", released on December 27, 2024, went viral on TikTok in early 2025 and topped the Spotify Global Weekly Chart in July. [6] It became Sombr’s first entry on both the Billboard Global 200 and the Hot 100, [7] peaking at numbers six and 30, [8] [9] respectively, while also reaching number one on the Alternative Airplay chart. [10] Internationally, it reached the top five in Australia, [11] Ireland, [12] New Zealand, [13] the Philippines, [14] and Singapore, [15] and the top ten in several other countries, [16] [17] eventually surpassing 700 million streams on Spotify. [18] Its music video was released on April 3, [19] followed by Sombr’s television debut performance on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon on May 20, 2025. [20]

The second single, "Undressed", was released on March 21, 2025, and experienced similar virality, peaking at number 25 on the Hot 100 and number 11 on the Global 200, while also topping the Hot Rock Songs. [21] [22] Internationally, it reached number one in Ireland, [12] and reached the top five in Australia, [23] New Zealand, [13] and the United Kingdom, [12] among other countries. It has surpassed 400 million streams on Spotify. [24] The music video was released on May 8, 2025. [25] On July 23, Sombr performed the song on Jimmy Kimmel Live! . [26]

The third and fourth singles, "We Never Dated" and "12 to 12", were released on June 20 and July 24, 2025, respectively. Both songs achieved moderate success, becoming Sombr’s third and fourth entries on the Global 200. [27] [28] "12 to 12" became his third top-ten hit in Ireland, reaching number seven. [12] The "12 to 12" music video, featuring Addison Rae, was released alongside the single. [29]

Tour

Following the success of the first two singles, Sombr has embarked on his first solo concert tour, announced in April 2025 and set to cover North America, Europe, Australia, and New Zealand. The North American and European legs began on May 25 and are scheduled to conclude on October 28. The tour will then continue with its Australia and New Zealand legs, starting on December 2 and ending on December 14. [30] [31] Additional European dates were announced in July 2025, with performances planned from February to March 2026. [32]

Critical reception

Professional ratings
Review scores
SourceRating
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Rolling Stone Star full.svgStar full.svgStar full.svgStar full.svgStar empty.svg [5]

Steven J. Horowitz of Variety praised I Barely Know Her as a confident and fully realized debut, noting that Sombr "elevates the bedroom pop of his earlier work, giving it a more muscular, swaggering sound" while maintaining the emotional vulnerability that defined his earlier singles. He described the album as "a breakup album in the traditional sense", highlighting tracks like "Undressed" and "Canal Street" for their intimacy and wistful lyricism, while commending upbeat songs such as "12 to 12" and "Under the Mat" for blending themes of heartbreak with vibrant production. Drawing comparisons to The Beach Boys' harmonies and Brian Wilson's vocal style, Horowitz also credited co-producer Tony Berg with broadening Sombr's sound and concluded that the album "marks a triumphant arrival" and "the first real statement from an artist with a clear vision and a sound that grows more distinct with each release." [4]

In another positive review, Larisha Paul of Rolling Stone lauded the album for its "enamored, uninhibited" spirit and its ability to balance a romanticized vision of New York City with its harsher realities. She highlighted "12 to 12" for its "intoxicating scene" and "deep grooves", noting how Sombr "makes heartbreak sound alluring" through vivid storytelling and lush production alongside co-producer Tony Berg. Tracks like "Canal Street" were described as the album's emotional centerpiece, showcasing Sombr's "melancholy and melodies" and drawing comparisons to Olivia Rodrigo's "Traitor" while also commending tracks such as "Under the Mat" and "Come Closer" for their layered harmonies and confident performances. Paul concluded that Sombr's debut demonstrates "distinct internal confidence and external charm", positioning him as one of pop’s most compelling emerging voices. [5]

Ali Shutler of NME similarly praised I Barely Know Her as a smart and cathartic reimagining of the breakup album, framing it as a leap from Sombr's viral bedroom-pop roots into slick, festival-ready territory. While the early hits "Undressed" and "Back to Friends" are acknowledged as foundational, Shutler emphasized that the album's true strengths emerge in tracks like "Crushing", "Come Closer", "Dime", and "12 to 12". Shutler concluded that Sombr delivered a debut that feels both deeply personal and ambitiously expansive. [33] Nina Kudlacz of The Luna Collective described the album as a debut that channels vulnerability through expressive songwriting and refined indie rock-infused arrangements, portraying it as a unifying and emotionally resonant record. [34]

In a mixed review, Pavel Snapkou of Showbiz by PS noted the lack of effort put into the record, which affected its variety and led to monotony, comparing it to the works of viral TikTok artists whose full-length albums are often hastily built around a few hits. He remarked that "these songs could have stayed as standalone singles," but ultimately concluded that "what we got is a lazy, distortion-and-reverb-soaked project." [35]

Commercial performance

In the United States, I Barely Know Her debuted at number 14 on the Billboard 200, earning 31,000 album-equivalent units in its first week, and number two on the Top Rock & Alternative Albums. [36]

Track listing

All tracks are written by Shane Boose. All tracks are co-produced by Sombr and Tony Berg, except "Back to Friends" and "We Never Dated" which are produced solely by Sombr.

I Barely Know Her track listing
No.TitleLength
1."Crushing"3:26
2."12 to 12"4:03
3."I Wish I Knew How to Quit You"3:52
4."Back to Friends"3:19
5."Canal Street"5:05
6."Dime"3:45
7."Undressed"3:02
8."Come Closer"3:15
9."We Never Dated"3:17
10."Under the Mat"4:45
Total length:37:47

Personnel

Credits adapted from Tidal. [37]

Charts

Chart performance for I Barely Know Her
Chart (2025)Peak
position
Australian Albums (ARIA) [38] 6
Austrian Albums (Ö3 Austria) [39] 11
Belgian Albums (Ultratop Flanders) [40] 14
Belgian Albums (Ultratop Wallonia) [41] 68
Czech Albums (ČNS IFPI) [42] 3
Danish Albums (Hitlisten) [43] 17
Dutch Albums (Album Top 100) [44] 12
Finnish Albums (Suomen virallinen lista) [45] 5
French Albums (SNEP) [46] 37
German Albums (Offizielle Top 100) [47] 25
German Rock & Metal Albums (Offizielle Top 100) [48] 9
Icelandic Albums (Tónlistinn) [49] 21
Irish Albums (OCC) [50] 6
Italian Albums (FIMI) [51] 50
Japanese Download Albums ( Billboard Japan ) [52] 62
Lithuanian Albums (AGATA) [53] 2
New Zealand Albums (RMNZ) [54] 4
Norwegian Albums (IFPI Norge) [55] 4
Portuguese Albums (AFP) [56] 9
Swedish Albums (Sverigetopplistan) [57] 6
Swiss Albums (Schweizer Hitparade) [58] 9
UK Albums (OCC) [59] 10
US Billboard 200 [36] [60] 14

Release history

Release dates and formats for I Barely Know Her
RegionDateFormatLabelRef.
VariousAugust 22, 2025
November 7, 2025

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