Hostages and Missing Families Forum

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The "Sabbath Dinner" table, with more than 200 empty chairs representing the number of abductees and missing persons held in the Gaza Strip, at Hostages Square in Tel Aviv. Shabbat Dinner table representing the hostages and missing people, The October 7 attack.jpg
The "Sabbath Dinner" table, with more than 200 empty chairs representing the number of abductees and missing persons held in the Gaza Strip, at Hostages Square in Tel Aviv.

The Hostages and Missing Persons Families Forum (Hebrew: מטה המשפחות להחזרת החטופים והנעדרים) is a body established to support and advocate for the families of the abductees who were kidnapped to Gaza as part of the 2023 Hamas attack on Israel on 7 October 2023, and for the families of the missing persons as a result of this attack. The forum aims to return the abductees from Gaza, to locate those missing from the attack, and to handle medical, legal and other matters related to the abduction and its consequences. It is a group that represents the hostages and kibbutz community and makes announcements of relevant news such as the deaths confirmed of the hostages. [1] [2]

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History

Within days of the 2023 Hamas attack on Israel on 7 October 2023, the families of at least 341 missing Israelis, who had either been kidnapped to Gaza or whose disposition was unknown, started a WhatsApp group to share information and organize. Three initiatives, led by former Israeli politician and communications professional Ronen Tzur, Haim Rubinstein, and Dudi Zalamanovitch united as the Hostages and Missing Families Forum by 13 October. Tzur was the group's director, Rubinstein was the spokesman, and Zalmanovitch donated office space. [3] Tzur headed the Forum until he stepped down in February 2024. [4] [5] The Forum, along with most individual relatives of hostages, have attempted to avoid partisan politics or confrontation with Israel's right-wing coalition government. [6]

Shortly after the 7 October attacks the Forum headquarters issued three demands, namely the immediate release of all hostages, the immediate opening of a humanitarian corridor to supply medicine to hostages, and intervention and aid from neighboring countries to assist in the release of the hostages. [7]

Activities

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Members asking for signatures calling for the return of hostages at an Israeli mall.

During the first week, the group organized a fundraising drive that raised $500,000 and organized a meeting attended by 500 family members with Gal Hirsch, the Israeli government official coordinating hostage affairs. The group launched the hashtag #BringThemHomeNow. [3] The Forum recruited hundreds of volunteers in Israel and the United States, including psychologists, social media and communications professionals, former hostages, and former government officials such as David Meidan, who was involved in negotiating the Gilad Shalit prisoner exchange. [3]

In November 2023 hostages families set off on a five day march from the Hostages Square to the Prime Ministers office to present a demand for the release of all hostages. [8]

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Clock displayed in the Hostages Square counting the time that the hostages have spent being held by Hamas.

In February 2024, the Hostages and Missing Families Forum filed a war crimes complaint against Hamas at the International Court of Justice. The complaint included charges against Hamas leaders of "kidnapping, crimes of sexual violence, torture and other serious allegations". [9] The Forum was awarded the Genesis Prize, also referred to as the Jewish Nobel Prize, alongside the JAFI Fund for Victims of Terror; Lev Echad; NATAL-The Israel Trauma and Resiliency Center; and OneFamily-Overcoming Terror Together. [10]

In April 2025, the Forum published a health report of the currently 24 remaining hostages in Gaza based on prior medical histories, documented images and videos published of them by Hamas, and testimonies about the conditions, statuses and treatment from released hostages. The report alleges from testimony from hostages released in January-March 2025 that there was a severe shortage of food, water and medical care leading to malnutrition, weakness and deterioration of their health. Additionally, the report alleges that the hostages were subject to physical and mental torture, such as being chained for weeks or months at a time, starvation, being hung by their legs, burns and being held in underground tunnels deprived of natural light and air. [11]

After a May 2025 report that suggested that Israeli officials were preparing for operations to "resettle the Gaza Strip", the Forum spoke out against the plan. Members raised concerns that the government was not focused on the hostages still held, and cited statistics showing that 70% of Israelis oppose resettlement. [12]

The group raised allegations in June 2025 that the Israeli government was abandoning the effort to bring the remaining hostages back to Israel from Gaza. Israeli officials had begun a campaign against Iran while the group argued that negotiators could instead be dispatched to Doha to reach a deal releasing the hostages. During a closed Knesset Foreign Affairs and Defense Committee meeting, Foreign Minister Gideon Sa'ar rejected claims that the government had 'abandoned and neglected' the hostages. [13]

In early September 2025, the Forum issued a statement demanding that Benjamin Netanyahu immediately act and send negotiators to discuss a ceasefire and hostage deal after Hamas expressed willingness to negotiate a deal. The statement also called out the delay in response by the Israeli government in reacting to Hamas's response to the Gaza War peace plan announced by Netanyahu and US President Trump. [14] The group also issued a statement condemning the recognition of the Palestinian state in September 2025, prior to the release of the remaining hostages in Gaza. [15] In late September 2025 after Hamas released an collage of all remaining hostages from the 7 October attacks and named them Ron Arad after a missing Israeli air force member, the Forum held large scale rallies. The first rally was held in Hostages Square in Tel Aviv with the second at the Paris Square in Jerusalem near Netanyahu's home. [16]

Omer Shem Tov speaking at Hostages Square in Tel Aviv, 9 October 2025, following the announcement of the impending release of Israeli hostages. Omer Shem Tov - Hostages Square, 9 October 2025.jpg
Omer Shem Tov speaking at Hostages Square in Tel Aviv, 9 October 2025, following the announcement of the impending release of Israeli hostages.

In October 2025 during the Gaza Peace Plan release of hostages, the Forum condemned the release of only four bodies of the reported twenty-eight deceased hostages, claiming it was a blatant breach of the ceasefire agreement. However, several families of deceased hostages had been told by Israeli authorities that their deceased relatives would not be released during the ceasefire. [17] The Forum had a running livestream during the release of hostages during the Gaza Peace Plan, showing hundreds who had gathered at the Hostages Square to watch the broadcast releases. [18]

See also

References

  1. Harkov, Lahav (8 December 2023). "Hostages' families find all the services they need in one Tel Aviv building". Jewish Insider. Retrieved 2 January 2024.
  2. "U.S.-Israeli hostage was killed in Hamas attack, kibbutz community says - CBS News". www.cbsnews.com. 22 December 2023. Retrieved 24 December 2023.
  3. 1 2 3 Danan, Deborah (13 October 2023). "How relatives of Israel's missing are making sure their loved ones aren't forgotten". Jewish Telegraphic Agency . Retrieved 28 February 2024.
  4. "Hostages' families mull sending own mediator to Cairo talks". Jewish News Syndicate . 18 February 2024. Retrieved 19 February 2024.
  5. "Official at head of hostage families group steps down under pressure". Times of Israel . 18 February 2024. Retrieved 19 February 2024.
  6. "Hostages' relatives gain political clout as war reshapes electoral landscape". Times of Israel . Reuters. 5 February 2024. Retrieved 19 February 2024.
  7. עזרא, גיא (11 October 2023). "המטה להחזרת החטופים והנעדרים הציג את דרישותיו". חדשות סרוגים (in Hebrew). Retrieved 9 October 2025.
  8. גיל-עד, הדר (13 November 2023). ""רוצים שישמעו את זעקתנו": משפחות החטופים יצעדו מת"א לירושלים". Ynet (in Hebrew). Retrieved 9 October 2025.
  9. Sharon, Jeremy (13 February 2024). "Families of Israeli hostages to file war crimes complaint against Hamas in The Hague". Times of Israel . Retrieved 19 February 2024.
  10. Hajdenberg, Jackie (8 February 2024). "Groups working to support Israeli hostages and their families awarded 2024 'Jewish Nobel'". Jewish Telegraphic Agency . Retrieved 28 February 2024.
  11. Silkoff, Shira (8 April 2025). "Hostage Forum publishes health report for 24 living hostages, warns 'time is running out'". The Times of Israel. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 9 October 2025.
  12. "Hostage families: Government going against will of the people by 'choosing territories over hostages'". The Times of Israel. 5 May 2025. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 10 October 2025.
  13. Freiberg, Nava (17 June 2025). "Hostages Forum says Gaza captives 'disappeared' from government agenda; FM denies". The Times of Israel. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 9 October 2025.
  14. "Hostage families group demands PM send negotiators after Hamas says it's open to deal". The Times of Israel. 6 September 2025. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 9 October 2025.
  15. "Hostages forum condemns international recognition of Palestine before hostages are freed". The Times of Israel. 21 September 2025. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 9 October 2025.
  16. "Hamas issues propaganda warning for hostages' fate, as tens of thousands holding rallies". The Times of Israel. 20 September 2025. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 10 October 2025.
  17. Lanzkron, Naomi (13 October 2025). "Only four of 28 bodies of dead hostages to be returned today, families forum says, denouncing 'blatant breach of agreement by Hamas'". The Times of Israel. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 13 October 2025.
  18. "Livestream shows hundreds gathering at Hostages Square". The Times of Israel. 13 October 2025. ISSN   0040-7909 . Retrieved 13 October 2025.