Fraysexuality

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Fraysexuality (also less commonly known as ignotasexual) is the phenomenon of people who are sexually attracted to people they don't know, and the more they know a person, the less they are sexually attracted to them, and is a subsector of grey asexuality. [1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6]

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Fraysexuality
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Pride Flag of Fraysexual people showing 4 horizontal bars going from top to bottom as: Dark Blue, Cyan, White, Grey
Pronunciation/fɹeɪsɛk.ʃuːˈæ.lɪ.ti/, /fɹeɪsɛk.sjuːˈæ.lɪ.ti/, /fɹeɪsɛk.ʃuˈæ.lə.ti/
Etymologycoming from "fray" meaning to fight
Parent category Asexuality
Other terms
SynonymsIgnotasexual
Associated terms Demisexuality, Greysexuality

Characteristics

Attraction can disappear if an emotional connection develops. [7] [5] In a way, the emergence of attraction in fraysexuality is conditioned almost exclusively to unknown people, [8] [9] [10] even feeling immediate attraction to them, [11] [12] or people who they are not attached to. [13] [14]

It's often described as the polar opposite of demisexuality. [15] [16] [4]

Etymology

The attribution of the term fray as sexuality is credited to Tumblr user edensmachine, an account that has been deactivated, and has existed since at least 2014. [17] The term fraysexual is probably a neologism from fray, [18] which means fighting, which could represent the lack or breaking of affective bonds in people fighting. [19] [20]

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