Womance

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A womance is a close but non-sexual, non-romantic relationship between two or more women. [1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] It is an exceptionally tight affectional, homosocial female bonding relationship exceeding that of usual friendship, and is distinguished by a particularly high level of emotional intimacy.

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The word womance is a portmanteau of the words woman and romance. [7] The emergence of the terms bromance and womance has been seen as reflecting increased relationship-seeking as a modern behavior. [6] Although womance is sometimes seen as the female flip side of bromance , [8] [9] some have seen different nuances in the social construction of the two concepts. [1] [2] [10] Hammarén sees "different values assigned to male and female friendships"[ further explanation needed ] and a dissimilarity in the "underlying power relation between the concepts", [2] [ further explanation needed ] and Winch has asserted several differences in the social construction. [1] [ further explanation needed ]

Cultural references

Film

Examples of film womances seem to be less prevalent than bromances. [2] In Her Shoes (2005), Baby Mama (2008), The Women (2008), Bride Wars (2009), The Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants (2005), Desatanakkili Karayarilla , an Indian Malayalam language movie (1986), and Bridesmaids (2011) have been seen as womances, and their characteristics and tropes discussed. [1] Winch expands on the assertion that "The womance can be distinguished from earlier friendship films because of its focus on the female self as entrepreneurial self-project." [1] She sees differences from bromance, in "practices of consumption and hypervisability differentiates their togetherness from the togetherness of the buddies of the bromance" as well as dissimilar themes—girlfriend competition, female solidarity in the face of concerns about economic security and bridezilla behavior.

The Australian feature film Jucy (2010) is billed as a "womantic comedy". [11] [12] Frances Ha (2013) has been seen as a character study, with two close female protagonists, who "have quite a womance going". [13]

Television

Several 2010's TV series feature notable "womances" [14] as well as the earlier TV series Laverne and Shirley [15] and Mel & Sue. [16]

Other

The first all-female podcast is a comedy duo from Brisbane. [17] [ better source needed ]

"Womance" has also been used to describe the real life friendship between female celebrities. [8] [18]

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  2. 1 2 3 4 Hammarén N, Johansson T. Homosociality in Between Power and Intimacy. SAGE Open, 2014. 4(1)
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  4. June 02, 2013, Mary McNamara, Los Angeles Times, Review: Little charm in these 'Mistresses': Despite a promising premise — mature women making the mistakes of youth — this ABC remake of a BBC soap is lame and ridiculous., Retrieved, "...violate the basic principle of womance TV: Drop everything the moment a friend calls. ..."
  5. September 19, 2011, Mary McNamara, Los Angeles Times, Television review: '2 Broke Girls': '2 Broke Girls' is a meat-and-potatoes kind of sitcom in which a once-rich girl goes to work with and befriends a working girl at a diner., Retrieved, "...heart of the show is the womance – the inevitable friendship between the two women ..."
  6. 1 2 Townsend J. How To Be A Best Friend Forever: Making and Keeping Lifetime Relationships. Worthy Publishing. 2012. ISBN   9781617950292
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