Rebecca Traister | |
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![]() Traister at the JWA Making Trouble/Making History luncheon, 2012 | |
Born | 1975 (age 49–50) |
Education | Northwestern University (BA) |
Genre | Nonfiction |
Notable works | Big Girls Don't Cry All the Single Ladies Good and Mad |
Spouse | Darius Wadia (m. 2011) |
Children | 2 |
Rebecca Traister (born 1975) is an American journalist who has covered U.S. politics, with a focus on issues affecting women. She is a writer-at-large for New York magazine and has been a frequent guest commentator on cable news networks. She is the author of two bestsellers, All the Single Ladies (2016) and Good and Mad (2018).
Born in 1975 to a Jewish father and Baptist mother, Traister was raised on a farm. [1] She attended Germantown Friends School in Philadelphia, and did her undergraduate work at Northwestern University. After college, she moved to New York City. [1]
Traister began her journalism career in the 2000s at Salon and The New York Observer . For over a decade, she was a freelance writer for Elle magazine, and was eventually named one of its contributing editors. [2] In early 2014, she was hired as senior editor at The New Republic and wrote numerous essays and articles for the magazine over the next eighteen months. [3] In summer of 2015, she became writer-at-large for New York magazine and its website The Cut . [4]
Traister's first book, Big Girls Don't Cry: The Election that Changed Everything for American Women (2010), is an account of the 2008 U.S. presidential campaign from a feminist perspective. [5] The book examines prominent women in the campaign, including Hillary Clinton, Sarah Palin, Michelle Obama, and Elizabeth Edwards, and the media coverage of them. Big Girls Don't Cry was a New York Times Notable Book of 2010. [6] It later won the Ernesta Drinker Ballard Book Prize from Women's Way. [7] [8] [9]
Traister's second book, All the Single Ladies: Unmarried Women and the Rise of an Independent Nation (2016), grew out of research she initiated in 2009, "the year the proportion of American women who were married dropped below fifty percent; and the median age of first marriages, which had remained between twenty and twenty-two years old for nearly a century (1890–1980), had risen dramatically to twenty-seven." [10] She argues in the book that contrary to media depictions, the phenomenon of single women in America is not new. She chronicles social movements in U.S. history—including temperance, abolition, and secondary education—in which single women, who "were given options beyond early heterosexual marriage", [10] played a significant role. All the Single Ladies became a New York Times bestseller. [11] Gillian White described it as a "well-researched, deeply informative examination of women's bids for independence, spanning centuries." [12]
In 2018, Traister published another bestseller, [13] Good and Mad: The Revolutionary Power of Women's Anger . [14] In a New York Times profile, Hilary Howard said the book "traces the complicated history of female fury, and what that fury has meant for social progress, starting with the suffragist and abolitionist movements of the 19th century and ending with the resistance to the Trump administration." [15] In her New Yorker review, Casey Cep criticized Good and Mad for its tendency to juxtapose "isolated episodes of anger among progressive women of various races, classes, and eras" without building a coherent political argument tying the episodes together. [16] Cep also faulted the book for not paying sufficient attention to the fact that "anger knows no political persuasion. For every Maxine Waters, there's a Michele Bachmann; for every Gloria Steinem, a Phyllis Schlafly." [16]
Traister received a "Making Trouble / Making History Award" from the Jewish Women's Archive in 2012 at its annual luncheon. Longtime activist Gloria Steinem was the presenter. [17] [18]
Also in 2012, Traister won a Mirror Award for Best Commentary in Digital Media for two essays that appeared in Salon ("'30 Rock' Takes on Feminist Hypocrisy–and Its Own," and "Seeing 'Bridesmaids' is a Social Responsibility"), and one that was published in The New York Times ("The Soap Opera Is Dead! Long Live The Soap Opera!"). [19]
In 2011, Traister married Darius Wadia, a public defender in Brooklyn. [20] [21] The couple live in New York, with their two daughters. [22] [23]
[H]ow do women view their own trajectory, and have society and cultural expectations caught up to what the statistics show is actually happening? Traister is certainly not the first writer to delve into these questions, but she skillfully advances the conversation with this book. A mix of interviews and historical analysis, All the Single Ladies is a well-researched, deeply informative examination of women's bids for independence, spanning centuries. The material can threaten to be overwhelming at times, but Traister provides a thoughtful culling of history to help bridge the gap between, on the one hand, glib depictions of single womanhood largely focused on sexual escapades and, on the other, grave warnings that female independence will unravel the very fabric of the country.